This happens to me all the time. I give something my all and my patience runs out. I don't get the results I want right away so I obsess over it. "Hey, how ya doing?" is all I really need. Instead, I get "haha" or "lol". How frustrating. I just wish I knew where to draw the line between being the overbearing and getting what I want. I want them to come to me, not the other way around. I need to know when to quit. He says he likes me, but given my history with men, I do have a hard time trusting. I realize everyone is different and there are some very trustworthy people and some aren't. We said a lot of things, I'm just wondering when this fairy tale attitude will wear off. I'm just starting to make progress, or so I'd like to think, with my other attempt at a love life. Then this bomb is litterally thrown on me and I'm stuck with a, "what the heck?'. I can't keep him off my mind.Monday, May 18, 2009
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This happens to me all the time. I give something my all and my patience runs out. I don't get the results I want right away so I obsess over it. "Hey, how ya doing?" is all I really need. Instead, I get "haha" or "lol". How frustrating. I just wish I knew where to draw the line between being the overbearing and getting what I want. I want them to come to me, not the other way around. I need to know when to quit. He says he likes me, but given my history with men, I do have a hard time trusting. I realize everyone is different and there are some very trustworthy people and some aren't. We said a lot of things, I'm just wondering when this fairy tale attitude will wear off. I'm just starting to make progress, or so I'd like to think, with my other attempt at a love life. Then this bomb is litterally thrown on me and I'm stuck with a, "what the heck?'. I can't keep him off my mind.
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You just need to sit back, relax, and see how things pan out. I constantly have to do that with my girlfriend. She will get upset, and I become overbearing on how sorry I am, how I will fix things, etc. And when I sit back and wait for her, things pan out quicker. It's tough to do, and it's tougher to learn, but if you can do it once and see how it works, then it's a nice thing in your back pocket. Just don't always count on it. lol
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